I'm 43, have a 10 month old, & lately been feeling quite frumpy (not to mention overweight). Im rubbish at clothes shopping & knowing what will suit me/colours etc & would just like some ideas of what to wear, wear to shop etc. I'm pretty casual but jeans are all quite tight on me as I'm i between a 12 and 14. Am 5 '4 & carrying bit extra around the middle. Legs are ok tho.