A very dear friend is coming towards the end of her life. I'd like to buy her a really soft fine cashmere wrap, knitted rather than fabric-like. I've looked at Brora, Pure, Catherine Robinson, Willow etc. Which is the nicest? It needs to feel lovely and soft and comforting and be big enough to wrap up in, but not look like a blanket (think that might emphasise being in bed and ill if that makes sense?). Thank you.