Shoe help please, URGENT

[happymummy12345]

Need your opinions by tomorrow please. My son is 3 tomorrow/ today depending when you read this.

I have two outfits sorted which I won't be altering (two different days) Just need opinions on what shoes to wear with each.

First is: white trousers, white top with light blue top layered over, light grey cardigan.
Second is: light grey jeans, white jumper with silver design.

Shoe options are: plain white or plain silver (I have bags to match both pairs). Both are ballet flats as I don't do heels at all. Jewellery will be what I wear everyday, I don't have different jewellery for different occasions, I wear all my jewellery daily, so no ladies worn matching accessories. It's all yellow gold.

Which shoes with each? I'm useless at that sort of thing, and I'm sure there are much more stylish ladies here who can help me get it right on my little ones birthday.

Wear the comfiest ones. Or kick them off and be even more comfy. It really doesn't matter. He's 3 and won't notice.

I would put white shoes with grey jeans and silver shoes with white jeans.

Play I find you quite rude. It's not about him noticing or it mattering. It's about me wanting to make an effort. If you have nothing helpful to say, say nothing.

Scabetty thank you for your help (and not being rude like the other poster)

Play wasn’t being rude at all! Just realistic!

3 year olds don’t care about shoes and would probably prefer not to wear any.

Choose which ever ones you like.

What kind of event are you planning? White clothes don't sound very practical for a party for a 3 year old.

Without any photos it’s very difficult to give fashion advice.

Have you any photos or links. I like the sound of your colours but can't visualise your outfits ( or you, obviously) so it makes it difficult to offer an opinion.
Also don't think @PlaymobilPirate was being rude. Just trying to help you not stress out by keeping perspective. Yes it's important to feel good but your son enjoying his birthday is the most important thing.

I'd go for silver with both outfits purely as I think white shoes can be impractical, but photos would make it easier to help.

Op you sound on the edge!

Play wasn’t rude at all.

Always always the comfiest one. Always.

You don't sound very happy HappyMummy...

And I'd agree, white clothes sound like a bad idea for a three year old's party.