I’m hoping some of you knowledgeable women will be able to help me with getting a bra for my pre teen daughter. I’ve measured her using advice from some bra interventionist posts. She’s 30” under her bust, and 34” around the bust. I think a 30d would be a good starting point? She point blank refuses to go bra shopping and is finding everything about the experience beyond mortifying...any suggestions for non wired, non “girly” bras? Anyone else experienced a similar level of mortification from their daughter with this kind of stuff?