We are spending a couple of weeks in Cape Cod in August. Having now finally gained the confidence to wear a bikini in France ( where you stand out in a cossie), I am not sure what would be more ‘normal’ in New England. I’ve got a Boden bikini, which is pretty unassuming and am 40, size 10, but wobbly. Would that be about right, too frumpy, or shamelessly immodest?