Hair cut and trousers help please!

[SinkGirl]

Carrying a lot of extra weight / volume since pregnancy, mostly in my stomach, thighs and face.

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I need suggestions for trousers that are flattering for a large stomach, that I can wear with basic tops that I love (like sea salt striped tops which I find quite flattering). I’m a short 14 or 16 in some places. Tried some sea salt jeans with side fastening but they were really unflattering.

I also need a haircut to suit my face which is oval but with extra weight around my jawline. I currently have very boring mid brown straight reasonably thin blah Hair. Every time I go to a salon and ask them to do something that would suit me, I get the same boring mid length cut with a few layers. Yawn.

Please help me. I need a complete makeover (next up I need to consider skincare and make up too - I really am a mess!)