BIL is getting married in Canada and I don't know what to wear. For some reason I got an idea in my head about a fitted, backless, navy lace dress with long sleeves. I have never actually seen such a dress though which is the first problem. I was going to dress it up with nude shoes then a statement hat but apparently they don't wear hats to weddings over there.
I'm 5'3, size 10, I'm a GG so need to be able to feel like I'm strapped in (which to be fair was going to be a challenge with a backless dress). I'm pale skinned/total ghost and have dark hair. Would be grateful for any help