Jeans, please help me find some!

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I'm simply can't get any that fit. I'm 40 and have always been slim size 10-12. 3 kids later however, I'm carrying extra weight on my hips, stomach and thighs. Nothing seems to fit well around both my waist and my hips/bum. Everything is too low cut. Where do I even begin? They need to be slim/skinny

Also (ridiculous I know) how do I know what size I am?! Lots of jeans are much too tight round my bum but too loose round my waist so look awful cinched in with a belt. Where do I need to measure myself?

I like Topshop Jamie , I'm about the same size .. both the 28 and 30 fit me but I prefer the looser fit of the 30 . They come in leg lengths too !

I really struggle with jeans due to needing longer length, but bought some fat face ones which are doing well so far. I finally learnt to size down and sacrifice breathing for a few minutes until they stretch!

I’m a huge fan of oasis’s cherry jeans. They are fantastic-flattering and long lasting.

My slim friend bought some cherry's recently and they look good. She won't mind me saying we're both carrying a bit extra in the tummy department too since dc

I have a friend who has a bigger bum and smaller waist, she swears by top shop jeans!

I was going to suggest Jamie Jeans, they’re higher rise so hold everything in, and the denim is thick but stretchy so they hold shape, but also stretch to fit.

Brilliant thank you so much, great ideas for me