I am going grey. I don't mind this and actually have no choice as I'm seriously allergic to dye. I'm still more dark than grey but am almost at the 'salt and pepper' stage. My hair is shoulder length and incredibly thick. The grey hair is a completely different texture to the dark hair, wiry and course and permanently sticks out, it's really bothering me. Any recommendations for conditioners or other products to tame it a little?