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Help me break free of suits! What else can I wear to work? (Plus size)

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ladybirdladybug · 10/11/2017 22:24

I need to go to a client meeting. Usually I'd wear a suit, probably from Next but I'm sick of suits!

But I'm clueless as to what else to wear! Smart usually = suit to me but it's getting a bit boring.

I like wearing trousers. I have a massive spare tyre tummy so although I like dresses usually often don't suit me if at all figure hugging. I can't wear tops that stop at the waist.

Any ideas gratefully received!

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ladybirdladybug · 11/11/2017 23:10

MrsSchadenfreude thanks but I can't wear anything with a waist - the Pheobie and Margot are out.

I'm seriously the shape of someone 8 months pregnant. I can't do waists.

The Simply Be suits my shape much more in terms of where it comes in - just under the bust. In the same vein, can get away with empire line dresses.

But - that desss is too much cleavage for a work thing. I have enormous boobs and dresses that look absolutely fine on smaller chested women look obscene on me! V shaped necks suit me but I don't want to be showing any actual cleavage at all really.

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ladybirdladybug · 11/11/2017 23:17

I'll check out Cos another time thanks for the tip :) (Too late to order anything now.)

So, I went into town. I've done Next, Monsoon, TK Maxx, M&S and a quick looked round Debenhams as it was closing. Nothing. Tried on loads of stuff in TK Maxx but it looked awful on.

Then popped into Asda for a treat for 4yo DD (she was with me for Next & TK Maxx and did really well) and came away with two blouses from the sale for £3.50 each! One of them might do if I can find something to go with it in time.

DD got an awesome pair of winter boots from TK Maxx. (Could have spent a fortune on her in there very easily!)

Gah. I've got loads of prep to do tomorrow and Monday, I don't want to be shopping Sad

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ladybirdladybug · 11/11/2017 23:19

Monsoon had lots of lovely stuff but nothing that worky that looked right on.

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ladybirdladybug · 11/11/2017 23:46

Feel free to tell me how awful you think they are! But here's the sum total of my shopping trip!

They both look better in RL (honest!). The shape in a 20 is flattering, it suits me. It covers my tum well. It's hard to find stuff that suits my shape and these do. Plus they were £3.50 each!

The rust one I might wear at some point over Christmas. The black and white one I might wear to the meeting if I can find a jacket to go with it. It's not ideal but I need to wear something and I'm running out of options fast!

Help me break free of suits! What else can I wear to work? (Plus size)
Help me break free of suits! What else can I wear to work? (Plus size)
Help me break free of suits! What else can I wear to work? (Plus size)
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MrsSchadenfreude · 12/11/2017 00:04

I like the black and white one. I like the colour of the rust one, but not the frill - I'd feel as if it would make my chest look even bigger!

I don't have a waist either, but I prefer to wear something reasonably fitted that gives the illusion of a waist. The Phoebe dress really just has a seam at the waist, it doesn't go in much at all. I can't wear empire line dresses at all - they make me look huge and pregnant, as there is just too much fabric, although they look good on other people who are a similar shape to me!

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stonecircle · 12/11/2017 01:43

Love the black and white one ladybird (might pop to Asda tomorrow and have a look). I’ve also got a tum that needs covering.

Do you need a jacket? Could you just wear the blouse with a black skirt or trousers and some smart shoes or boots?

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Becles · 12/11/2017 02:05
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MrsSchadenfreude · 12/11/2017 08:30

Planet has gone the way of Windsmoor.

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Becles · 13/11/2017 07:47

Nooooooo

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