Can I firstly apologise to anyone who has felt that I have mislead them in any way with regards to the contents of my blog.
I have written my blog almost every day for coming up to 7 years and on the back of that have been fortunate enough (a lot of right place right time) to build a career around it, in this new, and often, confusing world of social media. As well the changing role of media and marketing.
I am aware that integrity and honesty have been key to my success and I do try and be as transparent as I can. I always declare when I am working on a paid partnership, as will I declare when I receive a gift.
I may not mention every time I then wear said gift as, as far as I was aware, that wasn’t something most bloggers did (and I believe still don’t). I do always (and if I don’t, it is genuinely an oversight and not a nefarious move on my part) thank whoever sent me the gift in some form.
However I appreciate that, for some, this isn’t enough and so I have taken this on board and have changed the way I list my outfit details. I also took note of the issues raised with regards to unrealistic lifestyles. I’ve thought about this long and hard and yes, my lifestyle has changed as my career has expanded and my kids have got older which gives me more freedom to do other things. However I thought it useful to show how I don’t always wear new things. Hence letting people know when things were purchased or gifted, and showing that most people will mix new with old.
I also wanted to clarify, as again it’s not something I mention, but I accept probably only around 10% of what I am offered as gifts. I either politely decline before sent, return or give to charity if they don’t want it back.
I only ever keep and wear things that I myself would and could afford to buy. In the main, I like being able to support small businesses who have very little marketing budget but get a huge return from bloggers wearing and genuinely loving their product.
I’m sure there are loads of questions I haven’t answered but I am more than happy to.
On my insta post and insta story, I also am hugely sorry if that was misunderstood. The only point I was addressing was not transparency as a whole, but the fact that my integrity was being questioned with regards to specific items, that I’d actually paid for. However I apologise if I didn’t make this point clearly enough. I am fully open to criticism and even personal attack (not going to lie, it’s not pleasant to read!!) but when things are assumed in one post and then reiterated as fact in another, I will admit I did have an issue with that, as I think most would.
I haven’t come on before as I’m not and never have been a member of Mumsnet and felt I was intruding on a private conversation that I hadn’t been invited to! But I feel in order to hopefully put my point across, as I’m clearly doing it really badly elsewhere (doh!), I wanted to apologise and put my point of view across.
Apologies for any typos, I haven’t reread this tome, am gagging for a my first coffee of the day...