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Wearing the same dress again?

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dancetothemusic · 14/09/2017 07:51

I have an event to go to and wonder about the etiquette of wearing the same dress that I wore 3 months ago. Some of the guests will be the same.
DH's work, his staff and partners.
I'm older and frumpier than most of them.
It's a dark, lace shift btw, nothing showy.

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MeredithLogue · 14/09/2017 07:54

Could you remember what someone was wearing at last event? Can you remember what you wore last Thursday? It would be fine to wear again IMO.

CountFosco · 14/09/2017 07:57

Presumably your DH will be wearing the same suit that he wore 3 months ago? Can you remember what any of the other guests wore 3 months ago? Do you really think they will remember what you wore?
Wear the dress, with different accessories if you really want to. No-one will notice, embrace being old and frumpy! And even if someone does notice so what, even the queen wears things more than once.

nancy75 · 14/09/2017 07:59

If the dress was an over the top shocking pink number I might say no, but as it's a dark dress like most people wear them I doubt if anyone would remember so yes, wear it!

dancetothemusic · 14/09/2017 08:09

Ok, thanks for the reassurance.
Being middle aged has thrown my confidence, a few years ago it would've been the shocking pink one.

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SukiTheDog · 14/09/2017 11:26

Wear the dress. Buy a new lipstick/earrings/nail polish. Smile.

You're done! 😊

FreakinScaryCaaw · 14/09/2017 11:56

How old are you? I'm 50 next year and wear hot pink.

Agree with accessories to change your look.

lookatmenow · 14/09/2017 13:10

definately change accessories and maybe shoes/bag

StarHeartDiamond · 14/09/2017 22:54

Buy a shocking pink or electric blue bag and/or shoes. Or a knockout bag and/or pair of shoes. Nobody will notice the dress!

I find as I get older that I have to be a bit more careful with dresses but really go to town on the bag & shoes. The younger, trendier and more expensive the better 🙂

ScandiNoir · 14/09/2017 22:59

Wear it...recycling outfits is very in!

ReallyConvolutedCareerHistory · 15/09/2017 00:07

Wear it. I don't remember what other people are wearing in events :)

dancetothemusic · 15/09/2017 06:28

I'm wearing up but have ordered some ridiculous gold heels to make me feel more jaunty.

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FreakinScaryCaaw · 15/09/2017 06:32

Have a great time Smile

Caprianna · 15/09/2017 06:34

I think I have worn the same dress to events often with the same people for 10 years now

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