Can anyone help me find some clothes?! I feel so frumpy. I have nothing really that fits right and everyday picking something is a challenge. DS2 was born a month ago and my stomach is now a weird shape, maybe due to having a csection? I was overweight with a tummy before I had him anyway but I have a much worse overhang (starts at my bloody hips!) and bump still. Luckily I've lost what weight I gained but I'm left feeling like crap and despite losing the weight am still uncomfortable in my pre-pregnancy jeans. I need help.
I'm a size 16-18 and quite tall. My legs are fairly slim but the rest less so. I'd really like some nice long tunic tops/dresses to wear with leggings. I feel good in that kind of outfit and it's flattering. Wearing leggings with a top that doesn't go past my bum makes me feel like I'm in pyjamas/trying to be a skinny teenager 
I feel like most plus size retailers don't make especially young/nice clothes - I'm 27 not 75. But other shops the clothes just aren't flattering. High necklines make my boobs even bigger. Sleeveless or capped sleeve tops make my arms bigger. Stretchy silky material clings to every lump. Buttons at the front strain against my boobs. I honestly feel like I'm banging my head against a wall looking for clothes that suit! It can't be this hard surely?! I'd love to have even just three or four outfits that I feel good in. Can anyone can point me in the direction of a decent shop - maybe some online place that might cater for me?