Which would you wear to a wedding?

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It's not for a few weeks but I don't really want to buy anything new. Are one or other of these suitable, do you think? I haven't been to a wedding for years and, according to the bride, most women will wear suits (too much like work for me to consider).

Love the second one, really lovely.

Also, you look HALF your age!

Hadn't thought of a fascinator - great idea, thank you. And half my age 🙂 - very flattering but close up I look my age (as I think most people do really).

They both look lovely on you but I think the 2nd one is more wedding-y.

Ew, don't wear a fascinator! Wear an actual hat or nothing. I like the first dress better and if you're happy to show off your legs then why not!

1st is a better colour on you

Another vote for the second one

I've just asked a friend who came for coffee and he said the second one looks too much like a wedding dress (??) - the bride is wearing a "knee length lace dress" so he might have a point.

First dress definitely, I love it and it's fab on you. The second one isn't as nice a colour on you, too neutral with your hair etc.

I love the second one on you especially for a wedding. First is gorgeous but wanted to vote for second one in case you're counting votes in the end!

I am counting votes at the end, so thank you!

I like the first best. Much more flattering.

LOVE the first one. Second one a bit meh imho though it does suit you as you have a lovely figure

I was going to say the second one was best for a wedding, but I was thinking traditional wedding dress for bride.
If she's wearing "knee length lace dress" definitely go for the first one! I think it suits your colouring much better.

I like both but do think the second could look a little 'bridal'.

I love the first dress on you it is really striking, fab!

The second one is lovely but I agree that the colour doesn't suit you. The first one you look amazing in.

First one! You look great!

First one. Definitely the first one.

What a lovely figure you have op.

Both dresses are lovely

and holy shit HOW are you nearly 48?!?

Thank you all so much! First dress: 20; second dress: 14.

That's decided me! Heels and earrings and I'm sorted. 😀