Saw a lovely pair of black patent knee high boots in clearance sale Dotty P's today only £10...my size..proceeded to try them on, visualising myself in the winter wearing them with my black skinnies, looked at DD aged 15 for her opinion, waiting for the'Yes Mum , buy them, you look awesome!' to be told with a scathing put down of 'you look like Father Christmas' then laughing her head off...needless to say , I put them back, still regretful, gutted and wish I'd bought them, just how sad does this make me??...turning to wine for comfort now,