Hello... I'm not a regular on the Style an Beauty (naturally possessing neither!) but need help. What the best "wear your own bra" control slip, please? Bravissimo or someone else? After years of battling M&S control pants back fat and wedgies, I've decided I need to try a different approach and as we have multiple weddings to attend this summer, I'm seizing the moment. Own bra a must as I'm currently wearing nursing bras but will want to swap in future. I'm 5'4 and about a 16. Thanks!