I did a little experiment over the last year and I'm happier with my style than I ever have been, and not a pastel in sight!
Marie Kondo'd to start with then read the blog by Anuschka Rees. She helped me to realise what my style was: I also looked at Pintrest boards and kept a list of what was not my style (peplums, pastels, looking like a Parisian woman - I'm not French, I want to look like my confident self)
Key things:
Knowing my colours. Deep autumn tones, again, no pastels, hurrah!
By freer clothes, but better quality. This was key for me. Instead of random buying on the high street followed by regret, I kept a list of key looks for me. I've always struggled with jeans as I'm short with no bum but curvy hips. Tried on more expensive brands that I don't usually go for, got to Acne and found that their skinny jeans were a perfect fit for my no-bum self. More expensive but they fit so well and I feel more confident in them.
A belt with jeans can really polish off a look
Pushed my own boundaries a bit. I find summer very difficult to dress for (30FF bra size). Bought a linen playsuit which I'd never normally go for, but I've discovered they suit me.
Bought dungarees (I know) and realised I could team them up with some bright tops that I was going to throw out as I didn't wear them often with jeans but with dungarees they give a pop of colour
I have lobe piercings but not really into diamond studs, got a couple of gold triangle shaped studs and had a double helix piercing with a gold clicker hoop and a hoop with black diamonds. Looks good with a casual outfit or dressed up
Skincare triad of Vitamin C serum, SPF and Retinol at night