I was putting on mascara today and my 6yo niece asked me why I was putting on makeup. I said to make me beautiful. She said "but Auntie, you are beautiful anyway". She's a little love
My DS said almost the exact same thing to me once, he'd have been four or five I think. It gave me pause for thought, but I still wear make-up.
I have good skin and few lines, but I'm pale and sallow with dark circles under my eyes. Also have a few red blemishes that are marks left over from spots, these seem to take forever to fade
. I rarely get spots but have had 3 that have left these marks.
I've worn make-up since my mid-teens. I'm 38 now and still have the same basic look that I had then - creamy skin, eyeliner, a bit of blush and nothing on my lips. It just takes more effort now: back in my twenties it was just a bit of concealer under the eyes, plenty of kohl, bit of pressed powder. Now I use BB cream, illuminating concealer, eyebrow powder, gel eyeliner, mattifying powder and Hourglass powder.
Without it I feel quite plain; with it I feel pretty and like myself. I would never, ever EVER go anywhere where there would be people without wearing make-up. I think that for me, it's like a mask, but in a positive sense. I've always struggled with social situations, and putting another face on is a bit like putting another self on - one who can talk and behave normally, and who is worthy of people's attention and interest.
I have actually thought about this quite a lot
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