Please help with my shit hair

[MsAtomicBomb]

I have shit hair. There is no other word to describe it - it has always been a bit shit anyway but since having children it is doubly shit. It is very fine, frizzy, fluffy, and I have odd bits of regrowth everywhere that is wavy and sticks out whereas the very top layer is straight and floats up on its own. It looks a bit like in the picture (this isn't me btw! )

I need some miracle product that I can put on my hair and just leave to dry naturally. Please someone tell me that such a thing exists? Can anybody help?

Wow thanks all for the replies - lots of recommendations for me to look into.

Ok, so my mum has a Babyliss Big Hair thingamajig that I can borrow to have a little go with, but I'm also going to look into buying a good quality brush and practise at blow drying my hair properly.

In the meantime, because I'm conveniently out of shampoo and have some silicone free conditioner left in the cupboard I'm going to have another little try with the CG method. Perhaps I just didn't find the right products last time :-/

But I will look into all the products mentioned so thanks all, I really appreciate it.

To whoever asked, I want to be able to just wash, apply miracle product and have hair dry naturally wavy, but also have it straight at times. I do own some GHDs which I use to go over the particularly frizzy bits but they do tend to frazzle my hair quite easily.

I like the Organix coconut oil spray (available in Boots) on almost dry or dry hair.

I've found that a very hot waving wand applied to big sections around the top layer of my hair makes mine go wavy without frizz and it stays for 3 days. This is more effort than a product though obviously!

www.cloudninehair.com/the-waving-wand

Moroccan oil works on my frizz op!

Everything in the tresemme red keratin range. My hair is exactly how you describe. I wash it once a week shampoo conditioner the deep condition heat treatment then dry it out with a tangle teezer.