help needed - funeral to go to and I'm clueless!

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I have a funeral to go to in the next couple of weeks. I need some help and advice on what to wear. I'm a size 18/20 both for top and bottom. About 5'5 in height. Very rarely wear high heels but I do own one black pair.

Actually have very little clothes as I lost some weight, got rid of all my old clothes as they didn't fit. Unfortunately I have now put on about 2 and a half stone back on and really struggling as I really don't want to buy too much as I want to get back into my lovely slimmer clothes!

Please help......

To be honest I would make sure you are comfortable so if your are not comfortable in high heels I would give them a miss. I don't think you have to strictly wear black any more but maybe sober colours unless directed otherwise. As long as you look smart?

Just having a look on line at the moment and am surprised at how many tops are 'cold shoulder' . I normally like something short sleeved.

Anything black,grey,navy tbh anything suitably sombre definitely doesn't have to be black these days unless stated.