So........no mid life crisis (yet) but I know DH will ask me what I want and I want something nice for me 
I'm 5'5", 14 bust/12 hips / too much round the belly but I have lost weight and inches so that's improving.
I have short hair that I'm thinking of growing, I do henna myself.
I have no need for manicures , I cannot wear nail product at work.
I am already at the stage where I think "Oh you look comfy" rather than "Oh I love those heels" when I buy shoes.
I have one pair of jeans (Next) because I mainly wear jeggings (I had surgery on my abdomen so it was tender for a while)
I have ordered some earrings but I don't wear a lot of jewellry.
I have perfume
I've bought bras/pants
I don't own any clothes that I would be ashamed to go out in, no scruffy baggy arsed trackie bottoms after my wardrobe cull.
Not in the market for botox or teeth whitening thanks 
I'm going to book a salon spray tan and eyelash/eyebrow dye for my Birthday Weekend, so I can step into my next decade glowing and without having to draw on my eyes.
No skin issues so I don't fancy a facial,
I do my own waxing.
DH will start asking me soon, what is out there that I haven't considered.
TIA