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The Crepey Buds Of May

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GiddyGiddyGoat · 30/04/2016 19:49

Err, how did that happen with no one noticing!
It's because we're all on the dark and stormy, sloe gin and prosecco innit.

Sorry for the not v inspired title but I panicked.

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Lalsy · 11/05/2016 13:36

Crem, absolutely about wanting the world to stop when grieving. A ghastly emotional roundabout going for too fast which you don't remember stepping onto.

Collymollypuff · 11/05/2016 13:39

MI, hugs. Your emotions and perceptions are bound to be all over the place. Crem, so sorry about your toothache - I hope it gets sorted. Sad Rose, well done on progressing your play, I am in awe of your range of competence, seriously. Yes, dd has exams, groan.

Addle, your knicker tale made me laugh. Note to self: throw away tatty old knickers. I was only thinking of the Russian portraits today, but May 22 is a bit tricky. I had better say no. Sad

Auriga, yes please to Liars League again, but probably not possible till after dd's A levels. Hope you all enjoy Richard Hawley, BTM, Herbs and GGG. Waving to all other crepeys....

NUFC69 · 11/05/2016 16:50

MI, sorry to hear that you think you are not coping and feeling generally rubbish. It all takes time and everyone is different in how they react. I am sure whatever you wear you will look elegant and together. Please take care of yourself.

Crem, sorry to hear about the teeth - I hope you can get it sorted soon. Your birthday plans sound wonderful; I doubt very much I will be around as we are away for over three weeks in September, but thank you for asking.

BD, you are good about your visits to see DDad.

Hatty, sorry I missed your birthday - I hope you sorted out your pressie.

Thanks for all the advice re the pox which I passed on to DDiL. DGD has been dreadful about scratching and I fear she will have scars. DGS is still not right, although his breathing is much better. It's been a hectic few days as the building work is coming to an end and DDiL is needed at the house a lot - today it has been lovely as DH and I have had the day to ourselves instead of caring for the two DGDs. And the house is so quiet and peaceful atm - bliss. Poor DDiL has come to us cap in hand: she borrowed our Dyson and it blew up. DH is currently on the internet researching a new vacuum.....

Cremo · 11/05/2016 17:31

Sorry about the Dyson , NU ; these things are sent to try us.especially crap on day off. Hope you enjoy an evening in sunshine Smile🌻
The tooth is still raging - hot and painful. My dentist can't see me unless someone cancels.Angry I am double dosing with paracetamol and ibuprofen. can only eat mush.I know it an abscess, as have been here before., so will involve root canal or incision. For me it is super dooper painful as I have very sensitive nerves and gums. The last time I need a general anaesthetic instead of a local, as dentist hit a nerve in error and I whacked his head q hard when I jumped up in sheer agony. Hence my apprehension. 😫 If he doesn't call by the end of tomorrow I will go to the OOH emergency clinic tomorrow night. FFS
Off to see FFJenkins tonight with a friend.. She can have my Wine as I dare'nt drink with all these painkillers in my system.

Please, has anyone eaten at The Grain Store behind Kings Cross? GGG ?

Lalsy · 11/05/2016 17:45

Oh Crem, you poor thing, can you go OOH now? dd has had this sort of thing and OOH have always sorted her out pain-wise (which is good as she chose a university before Lalsy's The Alternative University League Table which will consider availability of NHS dentistry, cheap trains home, and cafes with WiFi and sockets was complete).

I have eaten at The Grain Store - are you thinking for your bash?

Rosebag · 11/05/2016 18:33

Ooh crem that sounds terrible. Presumably it'll be antibiotics first, no? And you need much stronger painkillers....

Sorry about the Dyson NU . I hope the DGC improve. What a lot you and yours are dealing with at the moment. How lovely to have a bit of silence.

Have had a quieter day, and got my gels done. Then met BFF who is going to be Researcher in my production team. Very exciting. Long WhatsApp discussion with DS1 still currently in Aus, who says he'll happily do strategy, marketing and a website. Have appointed DS2 as music director and DD for art work. Don't be in awe molly ...I am just as likely to fall flat on my face. Grin I just have to give it this shot.

In other news I have just made my first eBay sale ..we've sold lots of stuff over the years but I wanted my own account to sell clothes. I have too much great quality, hardly worn evening wear. The next dress is about to be listed....

herbaceous · 11/05/2016 19:25

< Crawls on to thread > Teaching all day Monday. Choir. Exam invigilating, strenuous admin, DS swimming, planning teaching until midnight yesterday. Teaching all day today, now preparing for my job interview tomorrow morning. At 8.30. Then, planning teaching until GOD KNOWS WHEN. Friday, teenagers. Then planning teaching until GOD KNOWS WHEN. Saturday, getting utterly shitfaced in Tunbridge Wells.

MI, you are Not Yourself. Any moments of doollallyness are all part of the deal. But kindly take matron's particular apposite advice - 'no beating up of self'.

NUFC69 · 11/05/2016 19:34

Thanks, Rose. I meant to say earlier that I am in awe of your dynamism and drive. Your project sounds wonderful. I might even have to pay a visit to the smoke when you go live.

Herbs, your life sounds so stressful atm, and the college sound like a load of idiots. Do you really need all this angst?

Stropperella · 11/05/2016 19:36

MI, cut yerself some slack!! There's a whole new landscape to navigate and you'll find your way to the new "Normal" eventually, but for the moment, it's best to take one day at a time. Clichéed as that may be, it is surely the way to go.

Ahhh, Crem, please go to the OOH dentist and get that pain sorted! It sounds awful, you poor soul.

Herbs, SUPER GOOD LUCK for the interview. Am sure you will put on a barnstorming performance. You are too good for that crappy FE job.

I also had a work day from Hell yesterday and almost went the full Malcolm Tucker (FTFOTTFSOF) on someone who likes to consider themselves an important person. Turns out, my pay rise was illusory and our department is held in remarkably low esteem by the rest of the school - even though it figures pretty heavily in all their publicity. I came home yesterday thinking I wouldn't have a job to go back to, but my luffly colleagues have decided that it's all a rallying call to arms and have gone all militant in support. HoD been off with one thing and another for the whole of the term so far, poor love, and is not available for comment. It's all a bit unnecessarily exciting and I have succumbed to a couple of glasses of midweek wine, which will seem a massively bad plan at 5.30am tomorrow. Wish I could share some of the corkers aimed at me yesterday by Seemingly Important Person, but it would be unwise. Yesterday evening, I was by turns extremely depressed and ferociously angry. Today, I am feeling less ragey, but am feeling a bit guilty for fomenting a shedload of discontent (although I have just caused a long-standing can of worms to come open, in all honesty). It is not the first time this has happened in a place where I work. In fact, I should get me an official Fomenter of Discontent t-shirt. I can't help myself, appaz. This is probably not a good thing, although it proves that I am quite good at Getting Things Off My Chest.

NU, glad to hear the little persons are improving healthwise, but I do feel v sorry for your poor itchy gd. :(

I am deliberately not posting about exams. Everything appears to be on a knife-edge constantly, so I'm not tempting any kind of fate by saying anything at all. Needless to say, dd relieves at least some of her stress by warring with dh. And rings me at random moments to tell me that he is being "vile". He tells me the same about her, when I get home from work. Ds is plodding on with SATs, but has buggered off to Scouts tonight in defiance of the early bedtime during exams rule. Not sure I'm bothered, as the SATs appear to be a big fat pile of cobblers anyhow. Feh.

Stropperella · 11/05/2016 19:46

Congrats to Rose!
Sorry, addle, but I did chortle at your unfortunate sartorial incident. :)
btw, I have a pinboard by my front door, where for some time I have had pinned the lovely cards that the crepeys gave me last year for my b-day, so that I can look at them on my way out of the house every day and remind myself of the lovely crepeys. It makes me feel better about life. Even when I am busy fomenting discontent. Grin Hugs to you all!! {{{{{lovely crepeys}}}}}
Eh, Beachy, good luck for that "informal" (don't you believe it!) chat.

Off to walk the dog and will then have a vvvv early night until dd comes to wake me up and whinge about something, like the dreadfulness of not being able to borrow the car tomorrow (because, er, I'm using it to get to work and, er, we only live 10 mins walk from the shops she so desperately needs to get to). Feh, once again...

herbaceous · 11/05/2016 20:02

I too am fomenting discontent, Strops. I have said that until someone tells me how to do the reams of admin, or indeed why, I'm not doing it. And that when made to do all the pointless bits of duplication, I shall write 'see form A' on form B, 'see form B' on form C, and 'see form C' on form A.

Stropps, I sometimes think you might be right about being too good. I taught a frankly brilliant lesson today, and am massively more qualified than anyone else there, while inexperienced in constructing RARPA-based assessment systems and other such bollocks.

bigTillyMint · 11/05/2016 20:19

I can vouch for the fact that there is no need for anyone in Stropps' household to drive to the shops or the school. At all.

I have been on two taxi mercy-missions this evening

Exam melt-down here after a run-in with a twitish/twatish teacher and panicking about everything exam-related. I am trying to soothe.

GOOD LUCK Herbs! Fingers crossed for youSmile

motherinferior · 11/05/2016 20:19

I'm fed up with giving myself slack and it's beginning to feel a bit self-indulgent. I can't whine about wanting my life back and then loll around pathetically when I do get it back. I don't have time for this - I need to get back to earning money and also to trying to get my own writing done. AngryAngryAngry

wordassociationfootball · 11/05/2016 20:33

Ruddy good luck for tomorrow, Herbs.

MI, KBO.

Crem, Ooooowww!!!!! Florence's singing might soothe.

Rose, sounds amazing. Good on you.

Stropps, think it's great you're an F-er of D.

Lalsy · 11/05/2016 20:51

Really good luck, Herbs. Is dumping the awful job an option? And Beachy, good luck for your power chat (I forget when it is).

MI, you can't rush it. You will get past this bit, and you will get back to proper work with gusto.

Rose, it all sounds terribly exciting.

Stropps, sounds like they need a good FofD. Do they have any handy bin lids? Best of luck to dd, and all other exam takers.

My ds and Addle's ds are chirruping away together in the other room, I will miss it if they ever stop.

cressetmama · 11/05/2016 20:51

Generation Sandwich is clearly as difficult as ever.... hello again to all with apologies for not RTFT . Have been taking advantage of a lull in my life to get on with normality, but a fortnight getting DMiL back to cantankerous has been trying, and DS is clearly a jinx on schools as we are preparing for another change in September to re do Y12 ahead of the OFSTED fail soon to be visited on where he's at. IN fairness, it has been okay but it is aimed at BTEC aspirations and the staff have been working like fiends for the handful of A level candidates. On the upside, we have a family wedding and a series of 60th parties coming up. It's not all bad.

herbaceous · 11/05/2016 21:48

Dumping awful job is certainly on my mind, but could be a bad career move. And I'd bizarrely end up owing them money! Still, might come to that.

CointreauVersial · 11/05/2016 22:13

Exam prep at Chateau Cointreau has taken a back seat tonight - It's da Prom! OMG....it was like a film premiere. Several hundred parents/siblings turned up to watch the cavalcade of limos, buses, tanks, shopping trolleys and dune buggies arriving at the venue. Suits, sequins, spray-tans.....DS and nine friends were in a pink stretch limo, standing on the roof in suits and shades as it rolled up the drive - much too cool for school.....oh to be sixteen again. A quick glass of wine with friends then a quick dash home, where my lovely DH had prepared an anniversary dinner for me. DS has plans to camp in a cricket pavilion tonight; Hmm I shall keep my phone beside me tonight and wouldn't be surprised if there's a tired and emotional call for a lift home in the wee small hours.

bigTillyMint · 12/05/2016 06:51

CV, you're bringing it all back! Though thankfully no fancy cars at DD's and Addle's DS's. Or sleepovers in cricket pavilions (would have had to break into the local private school for thatGrin) Hope you did not get any middle-of-the-night calls!

Good Luck Herbs - hope you're upWink

herbaceous · 12/05/2016 07:13

I am up! Though have a headache, which isn't good.

Hope it's not one of me Monthly Migraines. For, indeed, AF arrived unexpectedly last night. Which could explain my bin-jumping rage at work on Tuesday!

addle · 12/05/2016 07:55

Good luck Herbs!

BTM - happy days! they looked lovely. that seems so long ago

MI - just want to echo Crem's and everyone else's wise words upthread - you reallly aren't being self indulgent at all and it can only be one day at a time now. My DF died 18 months ago - I still have plenty of days when it's top of my mind and I just want to howl and lots of others when it isn't, and I never know which it's going to be

Crem - sounds awful - do you have OOH in NI? could you try that? And I have a friend who's been to the Grain Store at KC and enjoyed it

NUFC69 · 12/05/2016 08:45

Herbs, good luck today with the interview. Beachy, when do you have your chat?

I can't remember DS having any kind of leaving do from school, although DD had a dance three years later - different days.

I am waiting for British Gas to ring: they are going to replace the mains in our street and need access to our garden. Am a bit concerned that they will want to dig it up and I just know things won't be put back properly. In other news, the freezer in the garage is defrosting so we have lost a load of stuff, the oven light has packed up, and the light fitting in the bathroom is falling apart and needs replacing. DH and I are going to JL later to get a new vacuum to replace the one DDiL broke yesterday.

Update: BG has rung: they are coming tomorrow to inspect. We live on the corner: it might be ok, but if we are connected to the 'main' road it looks as if the front garden and, possibly, into the house might be affected. Happy days! Oh, and the Hoover has started working again.....

magimedi · 12/05/2016 08:52

Thinking of you, Herbs.

NUFC - make sure you get everything promised in writing from BG. I had similar dealing with them many years ago (different house) & they were tricksy devils!

I had the most successful shopping trip EVER yesterday! Two new bras, tshirts, a pair of shorts & a lovely beach cover up & some flip flops. TKMaxx was heavily involved!

Rosebag · 12/05/2016 09:07

Good luck herbs!! We await the outcome wi baited breath...you're probably wowing them as I type!

Welcome back cresset

Envy MM I am not doing well on the summer shopping front.....

Hope you're feeling better today stropps Cans of worms have to be opened by someone eventually otherwise they just explode anyway. kBO

So CV how did the party animal get on? My DCs proms are after exams...DSs in Soho somewhere, and DDs locally run by the school, which is somewhat reassuring, actually. Not sure if any limos will be involved, though...

At this end, shock decision by DDs school to start study leave from today instead of Monday. This has something to do with an early muck-up day riot by a small number of year 11s who have been excluded and won't be allowed back to take their exams Shock !!!! Imbeciles.

How's the offending tooth, cremo ?

MrsSchadenfreude · 12/05/2016 09:18

Are any of you participating in the menopause webchat?

Have not RTFT to catch up with y'all - will do that later. Work has been crazy. DH unhelpful, same old stuff.

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