I have hair just below shoulders & as I've got older the condition has got worse, it's fine but lots of it, I'm never going to have swishy hair, it's needs blow drying too or it's a frizz ball
I can't go short (though I'd so love to) because I have a round face & it wouldn't suit me. I've had short bobs which were too severe & didn't suit me.
How about this type of style below? Is it a bit jane Fonda/Meg Ryan? Does that matter? I'm in my 40s after all! It's kind of short but not pixie, it's still longish.