My sister is getting married in 9 weeks, intended to lose weight blah blah blah. Anyway hasn't happened, I'm 5'5 ish top end of size 12 with big hips and tummy (quite dumpy if I'm brutally honest). Has anybody seen anything lovely I can wear? Am not bridesmaid and would rather not be in same outfit as anyone else so happy to pay reasonable amount but I need help to find something to suit me. Thank you.