What would you wear with this?

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I'm going to a wedding in April in a hotel in Norfolk, so fairly dressy but not ultra formal. I really like this dress but am struggling to find shoes and accessories that go.

I have a pair of grey heels that look ok, and I normally wear black opaques with everything, can I get away with those? Or should it be sheer tights? I have never been to a wedding before that wasn't in boiling heat or the depths of winter.

Would sheer tights and nude heels be better? Or something completely else?

Also, fascinators. Are they nice or stupid? I have never worn one but lots of people do and I always think they look very weddingy.

Thanks for your help, I'm stressing because I've gained weight and its s family wedding so I'll be in lots of the photos.

Grey heels fine, but no to black tights, not in April and not with lighter coloured shoes anyway. Sheer tights or you may even get away with bare legs if the temperatures significantly warm up.

Also no to fascinators, very, very dated. Style your hair nicely, maybe a fancy hair clip if you have the right sort of hair and style at most.

You'll look lovely and you're not the star attraction, so fewer people than you think will notice what you wear (I mean that nicely, sorry doesn't sound good, just go and have a good time)

Thank you loulou you have put my mind at rest!