What to wear to an evening reception London wedding?

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So we're off to The big smoke for a wedding next weekend and I don't know what to wear. I'm a farmer so don't do dressing up at the best of times and for weddings my default is a very traditional pale coloured flowery phase eight/monsoon type thing. I think I'll feel wrong wearing that outfit - the do doesn't start til 9pm. I

Can I wear a little black dress? Black trousers? I'd need a top to go with them. I do have a silver/dark grey body con type dress but am struggling to accessorise it.

Would a cocktail dress strike the right note?

I'm mid thirties with mousy curly hair, 5ft 5, hourglass size 10. Chunky thighs though so too short doesn't work.

Budget is upper high street. Don't mind buying statement shoes & bag if I love them. Dress would have to go with shoes o already have.

Please help, I've been going round in circles with this!

Dont buy a new dress. The one you already have is gorgeous.

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Spend the money on nails and a blow dry instead. Maybe even get your make up done.

I agree that dress looks really good on you and you'll only wear it for a few hours. I'd save my money.

I'm a Londoner - wear what you want! Just go by what makes you feel good.

I wouldn't wear a white jacket, though, as you'll get filthy on the tube.

Just FYI, there are some murderously steep steps down to The Crypt and the floor is quite uneven. Don't wear anything with super-spindly heels!

The Crypt is a lovely venue. Agree with Fernet re steps and dodgy floor!

The grey bodycon dress is lovely. I would wear that.

Thanks everyone, think I'll go with the silver bodycon dress - it's just so far removed from what I'd normally wear for a wedding it's great to get some reassurance. Also good to know about the heels! Thanks

I wish I looked like you in that dress!! Lovely.

Thanks plantsitter. I've lost 5 stone to get here so it does feel pretty amazing!!!!!

You look great, well done on your weightloss too.