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Crepe Oddity

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MrsSchadenfreude · 17/01/2016 19:59

Sorry. GrinGrinGrin

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magimedi · 05/02/2016 07:56

Sorry to hear about the ankle, CV.

Agree re Limbo - when DH broke his wrist it was great.

If you have a medical aids shop near you they will almost certainly have limbos in stock.

bigTillyMint · 05/02/2016 07:57

Had 2 missed calls when I got up - spoke to someone at SS this morning - apparently nothing has happened yet (they are looking into why nothing happened yesterday) Said I should call back at lunchtime. I didn't sleep well last night and had weird nightmares involving DM growing a beard.... Feeling guilty and like I should rush up there, but I know it's better if I leave it to them.

bigTillyMint · 05/02/2016 08:00

Sorry to hear about the broken leg CV. We have crutches here too from when DH dislocated his knee 11 years ago. DS has had hours of fun up until recently hobbling about using them!

Blackduck · 05/02/2016 08:45

BTM hope it gets sorted soon. Difficult being at a distance....

motherinferior · 05/02/2016 09:46

Ouchy ouchy ouch, CV.
BTM, do what you can. And no more. Seriously. The reason I am going tomorrow is that it is, in truth, more convenient/feasible for me to go tomorrow than next weekend, when I want to meet friends (including editor bloke) in London.
I have also taken all your excellent advice and sent out firm email to rellies, with a bit of a health update (she was in hospital AGAIN last night, low blood magnesium) and saying firmly that (a) she’s quite concerned that anyone who visits her will need to sort themselves out with food etc (b) I will keep everyone updated as and when there is a need but I do live several hundred miles away so I’m not up to speed with the minutiae of their lives (ie if you ring at 9.30pm BST and nobody answers the phone I am unlikely to know why, dammit – it might be easier to assume that they either can’t hear it or have GONE TO BED).
Started day by driving (and I’ve not driven the car for over a month, I realise!) the Inferiorettes to school as DD2 had marginally overslept and had to be there at 8am for a Latin class, and DD1 is loaded down with Stuff for the school art trip to Berlin. I wish I was going to Berlin this weekend, I must say.

Auriga · 05/02/2016 10:01

By the way, Rose, I used to go to Switzerland a lot, ex lover lived in Geneva. Loved Lac d'Annecy but the only place I really long to go back to is Gruyere, it's enchanting. And, judging by our family's experience, you will fall in love with whoever goes with you.

BeachysFlipFlops · 05/02/2016 11:05

Much sympathy on the management of broken limbs, CV. Seems to entail far more than it should somehow; washing bodies, transporting people, wrong clothes fitting etc.

BTM and MI, sympathies re: far away dmum's. When my dmum was ill, all she wanted me to do was to come and take ddad out, feed him and check around the house, so she could sleep peacefully.

All fine here, but ds has sort of slumped into sadness at the moment - I'm sure its hormonal (he's 14), but it's really getting to him. Really mopey and tears and wanting to cuddle up (which he never does). I'm not sure what to do - I'm not sure its GP worthy, but just want to wrap him up in cotton wool and look after him Sad (lots of cotton wool as he's almost 6 ft tall!)

Off to see ddad in the peeing down rain for lunch and walk.....

Collymollypuff · 05/02/2016 11:35

Can I come and be schnuggled as well, Beachy? That's what I need.

Blackduck · 05/02/2016 12:57

Oh Colly :( have a virtual {{ }} Not the same I know.....

I am shattered after the last two weeks and intend not to do very much this weekend. I will see how the land lies with dmum before I decide when to next visit. She is now eating (sort of) but we have no date for release yet....

Dp is very unemotional about all this and I am feeling rather alone in the whole process.

bigTillyMint · 05/02/2016 13:15

Oh dear Beachy, hope your snuggling has the desired effect. Do you think there are any problems he is not telling you about?

BD that sounds very sensible.
My DH is actually stepping up and being more supportive than usualShock Not that he has to do much to be more supportive than usualGrin

No news so far, so I have rung SS but the bloke supposed to be dealing with it is at lunch and I am waiting for a call back. Thank God for my job - no chance of worrying about DM whilst I am here!

Rosebag · 05/02/2016 13:23

A huge collective hug and snuggle for all Crepeys and their DC feeling forlorn and sad.{{{{{}}}}} I do think these teens are under so much pressure, as if it wasn't tough enough being adolescent and hormonal any way. You don't suppose he's in love from afar, do you Beachy?

Ouch indeed CV... Flowers

Try to stay focussed on the bigger picture Tilly You really are are doing as much as you can and the situation does seem to be in hand locally with your DM even though there are the usual, infuriating delays.

Auriga Somehow the idea of finding a lover in Switzerland appeals rather too much for comfort right this second. Blush Grin Actually I was reading about Gruyere only yesterday... Molly what a lovely excuse for a mini MU!!! how about Fortnums No, I'm serious actually. We could have a stupidly expensive branch and look at books on Switzerland. Or anywhere mutually convenient really. Smile

Yesterday's FIL's Birthday dinner was exceptionally tense for me and DH but went off ok, apart from the hour and a half it took us to get there owing to a tree having fallen on a bus, and the resultant road closures. We were horribly late and all shouty in the car. Good food however and a very nice restaurant. I couldn't help feeling deeply saddened when I looked at the DC and how well they conducted themselves and how nice they looked, with an Aunt over the other side of the room who had no interested in acknowledging their existence or even recognising that they were in the room. What a waste. Sad Sad Sad

Annoying trustee is continuing to send incomprehensible emails which even DH read and pronounced her ga ga. Angry On the plus side I have picked up a 5 hour teaching gig locally to cover for a fluey teacher tomorrow. Smile

Rosebag · 05/02/2016 13:30

That'll be Brunch, not branch

CointreauVersial · 05/02/2016 13:35

Her loss, Rose, her loss. Sad

Well, this morning didn't start out great. DD1 was a bit teary and faint, but knocked back a paracetamol and struggled into her uniform (one-legged tights!). Meanwhile, DS was moping around in his dressing gown complaining of a dodgy tum. So I left him at home and took the DDs to school, but mid-morning, the phone rang..... Poor lass has a cold as well as a very sore ankle, and it's all a bit much. I knew she wasn't swinging the lead, because she missed her beloved art lesson.

So, I'm working from home today....just taken a breather and cooked up a quite fabulous goat's cheese and tomato omelette for myself (I don't get to prepare that sort of treat in our miserable office kitchenette) and filled bagels for the invalids.....back to it now!

motherinferior · 05/02/2016 14:00

BD, I think I speak on behalf of Sister when I say enforced inactivity is on the cards for the weekend.

DD1 is off to Berlin NOW...Envy

BeachysFlipFlops · 05/02/2016 16:35

I'm very jealous, MI. Ds is off to Madrid on Wednesday Envy....

Not sure if he's in love from afar, seems to have decided who to go out with but just can't work out how/when/where to actually have a date! I think it's very stressful. There is some bullying going on at school and he seems to have inserted himself in as the 'great protector' (which is his normal stance). All very well in theory but once again, quite stressful to take on that role.

I'll see how this evening goes - I think the tears swinging into shouting must just be hormonal, but I'm on hand.....

Molly - of course you can come for cuddles - not sure mine are particularly effective, but you're welcome to have a go!

I took a look at ddad's BT bill when I was there - he is clearly one of those OAP's who never questions, switches or looks at his bill. I was on the phone for probably 10 mins and managed to knock his monthly amount down by almost half Shock. It's all wrong, isn't it?

motherinferior · 05/02/2016 17:23

Apparently, according to another mum who saw them off (I have to say it wouldn’t occur to me to wave them off) it’s mainly Sixth Form Boys on the trip. Oh dear Grin.

And DD2 came home in tears afraid I would “be cross and shout at her” about a duff grade in history. I know I tend to expect them to do well but then they usually do do well. I am clearly a horrible ogre parent.

OTOH we have a new head (after a year of distinctly duff caretaker head) and it’s someone I know and if nothing else she is v glam Grin. I met her DH on DD1’s first ever day at school, when DP and I were whiffling about our PFB going off to this terrifying place full of huge 11 year olds. He came over and calmed us down. I only subsequently discovered he is a family therapist working at one of the more senior institutions in London and is clearly good at Spotting the Loony Parents.

hattymattie · 05/02/2016 17:54

MI Grin at spotting loony parents - I consider that I quite good at that after many years of experience.

Envy of all the DC's off on city breaks.

Thanks for the tips on ladies - I'm going to start researching this seriously.

hattymattie · 05/02/2016 17:55

The tips on Iceland that is!

CointreauVersial · 05/02/2016 18:34

We are going to Iceland, Hatty (yay)....but only for a couple of hours en route to LA in the summer (boo). I did contemplate a longer stopover, because it's somewhere I've always wanted to go, but to be honest we are quite tight for holiday time, so I figured we'd focus on the US on this occasion and do an Iceland trip at a later date without the DCs

bigTillyMint · 05/02/2016 18:38

Beachy, it's tough being a sensitive, hormonal teen. And totally agree about places like BT taking the mick.

Lordy, MI - I bet your DD will have a great time!
I bet your DD2 is just upset that she hasn't done as well as she would like and if she has never done less well than perfect before, maybe she was a bit worried (obviously erroneously) that you would be disappointed.

MI, I didn't realise that HT that has left was a "caretaker" Head (advert wasn't in that long ago - must be hot off the press!) Sounds like she will be a role-model and has a good supporting actWink

I am relaxing into Friday night. Shubz later round a friends, innitWink

motherinferior · 05/02/2016 18:49

Her youngest goes to your DS's school, btw. In y11 ATM.

Yes, I'm sure DD1 will enjoy herself. Boys and Berlin. What's not to like? And possibly Beer?

MrsSchadenfreude · 05/02/2016 18:55

Thank you for the birthday wishes. I'm afraid I overindulged horribly. I did wonder if I was going to make it into the office this morning. I had so much on, I had to go in once I had stopped throwing up.

Still not feeling great. Had an enjoyable afternoon at work though - colleague and I discovered the appraisals of some very senior people stashed in his cupboard, so we locked ourselves in and had a good read. BlushGrin

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MrsSchadenfreude · 05/02/2016 18:57

Can I just say that I am not a big fan of Switzerland? My job has taken me there time and again over the years. I have spent more time in the WTO than I care to think about, and I am going back there next week.

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hattymattie · 05/02/2016 19:37

I did have a good friend who went to Switzerland for a business trip and went for a sauna in the hotel only to find the Swiss, including the men came in naked.

MrsSchadenfreude · 05/02/2016 19:42

The Austrians do as well, Hatty! It's only the Brits who sit there sweating in their swimsuits.

Just finished going through the thread - commiserations to all of you who are going through so much with elderly parents.

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