Mi - so sorry to hear that news.
BTM - time awareness seems to vanish & I remember how very hard it is to deal with.
BD - so tough for you when you know what your DM should be doing & she won't.
Auriga - you are a wonderful daughter (as are all other crepeys).
So sad that I have to post all of this - I have been there, some years ago, and well remember how bloody tough it is.
My heart goes out to all of you.