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Attempting to correct years of too blonde highlights

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Lilipot15 · 06/12/2015 07:53

Well, it has been done. I'm now apparently back to something like my natural colour but I feel like I am wearing a wig and get a shock every time I see my hair. To me it doesn't look natural.

I've been struggling to find a decent hairdresser since I moved and have had some colours which have made my naturally dark blonde hair look orange which I hated (I have rosy skin). So I think in response to this more blonde was put on and it ended up in bad condition looking like I had an overall blonde colour growing out.

So I have tried a new and recommended salon. Hairdresser seemed to know what she was doing and recommended that an all over colour to take it back to natural was the best way to go.

I think the thing that's upsetting me is that she made no bones of the fact that she thinks the colour I had didn't suit me whereas for years I've had light blonde highlights and see myself as blonde, as do others.

Apparently it wouldn't be right to add lighter bits in now (I'm not sure why, something was said about my hair going khaki which is obviously not the colour I want) and I need to have a similar all over colour done in 4 weeks when this one fades.

Has anyone had this done? I just don't feel like me and I feel my face looks pale and my hair doesn't look natural! It would be really tricky to have time to go back in but wondered if should go and discuss if lighter highlights could go in to break up the dark colour.

Of course at the time I didn't say anything! She was so busy telling me how much more the colour suited me.

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Lilipot15 · 07/12/2015 22:44

I think you're spot on about it being the all over colour that is the big shock.
Undecided as to whether to just live with it and give her the benefit of the doubt and try again in 4 weeks, or whether to ask for a consultation with another colourist. Will give it a few days and see how first wash affects it.
I have now tried the two most recommended salons in my small town, and family situation doesn't really lend itself to me buggering off to the city for hours to get my hair down at this time in my life. Much as that would be nice Wink

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DramaQueen38 · 07/12/2015 22:49

I recommend a make up makeover. It's likely your old make up matched your old hair. New colours to match your hair would be my tip!

Lilipot15 · 07/12/2015 22:57

Drama - any suggestions as to how I do a make up makeover? I've posted another thread asking this with no replies yet. I'm afraid I'm one of these who worked out by trial and error over many years what suited and keep buying the same things. I don't wear much make up and all I change if I'm going out is to put more of it on!!

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Solasum · 07/12/2015 23:06

I did exactly this about a month ago. I bit the bullet back in January and stopped highlighting, and had just got to the stage when the tidemark between mouse and blonde was at ponytail level, so not so bad. Went to highly recommended colourist, and he said dyeing all over in a darker semipermanent shade was the only way to avoid the blonde going grey-green. So I did. It had a really chestnutty hue which doesn't suit me at all, I looked years older. It has faded a lot now, but still is not right. Not sure what to do to be honest, highlights for life seems a ruinous expense, and it seems that I can't just go natural without hacking off all my once dyed hair Sad

Solasum · 07/12/2015 23:08

www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-3329766/Eek-Mousy-hair-s-just-got-screamingly-fashionable-One-writer-goes-blonde-mousy-pull-off.html

Her 'after' hair looks great to me. But not easy to get there

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