This is S&B not relationships but I've had a crap year and I'm feeling lousy about myself in every respect. I haven't been out in the evening in more than 6 months.
I've committed to going to our Christmas outing for a meal and drinks in a smart bar afterwards.
The thought of dressing up to go out fills me with fear and self loathing. I have no idea what to wear, I want to look smart, no jeans but not like I've made too much effort, full on cocktail dresses would be too much. I wear shift dresses and wrap dresses to work so a departure from that.
I'm 5ft tall, size 10-12, typical hour glass figure but feel flabby and very self conscious. I would want to cover up but an above the knee skirt or lower cut top is ok. The oft seen MN suggestion of skinny jeans and sparkly or floaty top just makes me look fat.
I'm late 30s, HoC Summer if that helps? Could spend up to £400.
I've got some shoes and separates that could go with other things or I could just buy a whole new outfit.
Help! 