Oh gosh yes , it wouldn't be like that now. And tbh I worked at the Victoria Palace ( Starlight Express!) at the weekend and towards the end of my degree I had a year of living with my late brother, which given that he is no longer here, was priceless.
Social media and cheap travel will make all the difference. Coming form here in the 198os was being like an alien from outer space. I felt I constantly had to define myself, explain myself and apologise for my accent. There is still a bit of that about, but I just don't care any more.
Hattie, wherever dd2 ends up she will have support, as I find the pastoral care at modern universities to be extraordinarily good. Iirc on the ucas form we had
1 definitively where I want to go ( perfect course)
- Somewhere that's equally good that I can still see self at ( different city, good course)
- Somewhere with a slightly lower offer but still like and same degree
- Somewhere with a much lower offer with really interesting courses ( slightly more practical degree)
5 somewhere with a good reputation but offering low but still a great city and fab student reviews
Do look at the actual courses Hattie. It can make all the difference to the student experience.