Hi bra experts...just ordered a couple of curvy kate 36J (ordered a 36 because I heard they were small on the band size). They don't fit well, they feel a bit "saggy" and there is room in the cups, at the top under the strap. I am thinking of going back to Fantasie which I used to wear - what size do you reckon? Bravissimo put me in a 34J (Panache) but they feel too loose in the cup but the wires cut in under my arms. I think a 34HH might be a little too small in the cups though. Not near a decent bra shop so having to do it online. Thanks!