Fascinator /hairband/ hat advice

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I don't want a feathery fascinator but think since I cut my hair into a bob (sob) it doesn't suit a fascinator hat. Don't want to wear a proper hat as will ruin my hair for when I take it off. Wedding. Patterned shift dress. Def want something on head. Hair is about shoulder length and will be curly/ wavy. Any advice?

Come on people I'm getting a bit desperate here...

What about a flower from the florists, it's sits on a clip to the side of your head? I've seen lots of this recently ( I am a wedding planner)

I'm the bride and I'm wearing a metal hair band with a jewelled clip on it. My longish hair is going to be tied up in a loose knot at the back, with pearl topped pins.

Personally I can't stand fascinators.

Have you looked on Folksy or Etsy there are some unusual ones on there (once you've got past all the feathers)?

I like this tattoo-style swallow

Fabulous glitter flower hairband

Beaded bow would look rather good with a bob