I'm 5 ft 2 and 8 stone but going through the menopause and seem to have a fat tyre round my waist which sticks out further than my hips. I've been invited to a wedding in June and don't think I've got much time to do anything about it (other than lose more weight and look haggard). I have an old dress I'd like to wear but it really shows off my muffin top. Basically, I think I need big knickers to squash the flab down. Does anyone have any suggestions or recommendations? Thanks.