SIL is getting married in May. Its a registry office do, no expectation of hats etc (and I wouldn't wear one anyway). DC are bridesmaids, and I know I will end up carrying one of them down the aisle, so I need to look on the smart side.
I am looking for a dress and a shrug.
But. I am short (5 foot 1 inch), a petite frame (I usually only buuy from petite ranges, but I can't find anything), a size 10 on top and a size 12 on the bottom.
I am willing to have things shortened, but that means that there cannot be any detailing on the bottom as that would get cut off. My body is short, so sometimes I need to have straps shortened too. I tend to suit A line or flared skirts.
I have bunions, so I can only wear the shoes I already have as nothing else will be comfortable. Those are nude or black mary jane heels. I would rather wear the nude ones otherwioe I feel like I am going to work.
Don't I sound wonderful?!
This is why I need help 
