I have also posted this in chat, but hope to get some good advice here 
I have dark ginger hair but very pale skin, and struggle to find nice tops to suit me! Especially going out tops, I want something nice for Saturday night for a rare night out!
Dark colours make me look even more pale and like I might pass out
I usually get people asking me if I'm ok 
I love oranges and pinks and reds, but they don't seem to like me!
I have got a top today (long top to go with leggings) and I like it, it's lighter colours and quite flowery which is not normally my thing as I'm a jeans and sweaters kind! Not very feminine! But I want to look nice and feel confident.
How do I work out what suits me? Any advice gratefully received.