Our very good friends are getting married Easter weekend. DH is best man so his outfit is sorted, kilt and tweed jacket. I literally have NO IDEA what to wear 
. Haven't been to a wedding in years and don't ever get a chance to go out of an evening so just don't get dressed up.
I will also be running round after a 4 year old and an almost 2 year old so high heels and anything uncomfortable is out. I'm a bit hippyish and not very stylish, fashionable or cool and tend to feel really self conscious in revealing stuff. It's also a country wedding and could be quite cold.
So am I a lost cause or does anyone have any ideas, even of what styles I should look at? I think I'd like to wear a dress. I'm a size 8, pear shaped with non existent boobs, and I have very short hair just in case that makes a difference (no idea what to do with that either hate it at the moment but not going to be able to grow it much by then.)
Sorry that was a bit long winded 