I look like a flipping student

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I sleep in old oversized PJbums and vest tops. Always mismatched, never sexy.

I really want to feel attractive in my bed clothes. My boobs are ENORMOUS. (36F) but my waist is a size 12 I LOVE those little delicate lacy plunge neck tops. Standing, I look great in them. Lay down however and boobs in armpit, lay on side and boobs out of top...

Please help me find something I will feel confident in!!!

Chanel no5?

Soft secret support vest or crop top like M&S do, or a more expensive bravissimo vest top. I always sleep in bravissimo nighties to avoid boobs trying to hide in my armpits or slap me unpleasantly when I roll over in my sleep.

Yes to soft bras - you're not enormous, I'm
a 34J

I even wear old underwire bras that aren't very supportive anymore

I found M&S secret support tops were too small in the bust. I don't have bravissimo money

Sorry. I appreciate that I'm not that big by some standards.

I'm going back to M&S now. Thank you for the advice!!!