Necklace - I hate gold and only like silver if it isn't too blingy. Black or grey could be a possible alternative. I want it to wear over a button-up shirt, so a collar or bib one might work. This is too in your face, but I like the black.Quite like this but not the gold I veer towards alternative rather than M&S type jewellery, if that's any help.
I also want a hat, maybe grey, maybe trilby-esque, but I have a silly little head and most of them are far too big.
Any ideas much appreciated. :)