Right I need a style overhaul, I will be throwing out all my old frumpy Ill fitting clothes and shopping for a few staple items that will serve me well,is this a good idea? And what are these things? I'm a size 10/12 no particular style(this is the problem!) would love to get into dresses and skirts a bit but don't know where to start! Or what shoes to wear with them, so things to ease me in gently would be great!end up living in jeans;( Also have mid blonde hair, thanks in advance.