Bunbaker - DH hates shopping for clothes. He has a choice, he does something he finds a chore, or he goes without nice clothes. I haven't offered a "Mary will do it for you" option, so he doesn't pick that one.
Instead, he shops from a limited number of clothes shops he can reach in his lunch hour or online.
His wardrobe consists of suits (bought probably once every 2 years), shirts (ordered on line 3-4 times a year), polo shirts, jeans and chinos from the 3-4 shops near his office he walks past, hoodies and cycling related t-shirts thrown into the on-line order basket while ordering bike bits. (He's a cycle nut, sadly). Pants and socks are all from M&S purchased in his lunch hour while buying a sandwich.
I refuse to make it my job, so he's just fended for himself, in the same why he managed fine when he lived alone before we moved in together.
for those who took over where their DP's mum left off, what do you think would have happened if you didn't? Do you really think they would just have gone round in rags, or have realised at some point if they wanted presentable work clothes, they'd have to buy them? I'm sure DH would be happy for me to take over, but by never doing it, he's just had to sort it himself.
Rather like I'm sure DH would be happy to never have to iron a shirt, cut the grass, do any housework, but i've never let "I don't like doing it, so I won't and Mary will do it instead" be an option.
OP - it's a slippery slope, he's an adult, dressing himself is part of that. Don't volunteer to take over. You might not mind now, but if it pisses you off in a few years time, it'll be bloody hard to step away. (the harder bit, of course is not being annoyed if his choices of clothing aren't as stylish as you'd pick)