Plus size makeover help please!

[Bluecarrot]

Im about to turn 30 and am a size 18 following birth of my baby (was a 14 before). Im having some trouble shifting the weight - Ive lost enough that my current clothes dont fit (they were pretty bad anyway) and feeling a bit low (with other issues thrown in too:( ) I need to dress for the way I am now. Want the confidence boost!

Can anyone help me find a capsule wardrobe?

I have
a decent bra
These pumps in black
a pair of navy & silver flip flops
a few pairs black capri and long length leggings
a pair navy capri leggings
a black cardigan like this

Basically everything else I own can go.

It needs to be breastfeeding friendly
No heels - I sling baby and prefer flats or very low heels
Im size 18
36J boobs
5ft 6
big wobbly belly with overhang
Im not girly girly, but would like to look put together (which Im useless at)

Anyone bored enough to help me? Pretty please?

[Bluecarrot]

I had a great nosey in the Evans site today and took my measurements ( turns out I'm now a pear... Except every description talks about small bust but as I'm a j cup I'm a bit confused!) and will go in and try on some stuff on.
Not sure about flowery kimonos but maybe a denim jacket..
Quite looking forward to it now :)