Hah! Finally on a style and beauty thread. Get the little pots of Maybeline creme blush in you actual skin colour, don't go darker or lighter or the effect isn't natural. Creme is the key, NOT powder.
Put blush on the peach (fat bit) of your cheek, blend a bit at the edges. Use a highlighter Laura Mercier is a powder, but expensively good, but pricey. Or a liquid type from Boots and Maybeline, and the Superdrug MakeUpAcademy (MUA) repackaged as MakeUpRevolution, I think, do good copies.
It's the powder, you need to try and avoid,it dries your face and sinks into haggard fine lines and makes you look older.
Also TOP TIP, only learnt recently. Thinning brows are a sign of age. You don't need those weird TOWIE / Kardashian "Guess Who" flipperty flip type eyebrows. Draw in your brows, just for definition. Pencil, powder, whatever, just look at celeb type people, all uniform filled in, one colour, regardless of skin tone and natural colouring,you don't need the stencil kit (wtf).
ALL have defined brows.