Crem, oh no, your poor dad and poor all of you. Hope things improve for him quickly.
Addle, I read your post about you and lalsy sending your dss off with oysters and thought "My ds wouldn't know what to do with an oyster. Is this another area in which I have failed as a parent?". Then I realised what type of oyster you meant.

I also though Wilbur said she purchased a small snail in Ikea. 
Herbs, it sounds like yesterday went very well, all things considered.
Re: packing - dh previously spent many years married to someone who did all his packing. (And all the cleaning) You wouldn't think that packing for yourself was a particularly hard skill to learn, would you? Apparently, it is more tricky than one might think. Dh has variously forgotten to pack any pants, socks, pjs and once forgot to take a coat. To Scotland, in January. It is always a joy finding out what he has managed to forget. Not.