I've Lost my Looks...

[MixedUpConfusion]

This was me 5 days ago. I'm 44 years old, I have no idea what suits me, no idea if I'm a "warm" or a "cool" (my arm veins are green and I have hazel...mainly green...eyes!), I'm overweight (size 14... 10 years ago I was size 6/8), hair going grey (but allergic to hair dye so quiff it to hide a multitude of sins!) and just feel like a fat ugly lump. Please help style me! But please don't be nasty about how I look, I'm feeling very delicate and have bad anxiety

Your skin is just gorgeous.

You are a lovely looking woman.

You look lovely! I wouldn't say you've aged between those 2 photos. If you can afford it why not go to one of those women who does a colour analysis and tells you what suits you? In terms of weight, I personally think women look a bit better a bit heavier as they get older. DH agrees (male point of view for you there!), but perhaps if you felt happier about yourself losing a bit of weight would be easier? I lost weight through watching what I ate and going for a brisk daily walk, nothing fancy!
Ooh, I do agree with the shorter hair comments though, as you have a lovely face shape and it shows it off more.