Well done all you green fingered lot - I must get cracking.
Herbs and Rudy, so tough, and the uncertainty makes things worse. I am not sure there is a right way for doctors to address the timing question, and it is a very difficult issue to communicate effectively over.
BTM, we get those clashes too - think it goes with the territory for young/mid teens, lots of whipping phones out to remote control them home, or having to be on standby for lifts/pickles. We have vague arrangement that I/we are available for ds on Fridays (not that he thinks he needs us but he does sometimes) and not Saturdays (which we often spend watching tv with him anyway....). dd comes and goes under her own steam, which is a bit nerve wracking but doesn't require any logistical back up.
Crem, well done on the form, and
on the death certificate (I guess they won't accept a copy so you cd order one quietly?).