Shoe help!!

[ClaraBean]

Hello,
I think i have decided on this dress for a wedding in September. It is a relaxed kind of wedding (my best pal, the groom, has requested men wear trainers!), so I think this might work.
I always wear dresses, never trousers, but rarely look smart, more rocky/grungy, so I always find weddings and things a challenge!
So I want some shoes for this dress! Any ideas?
I am crap in heels, and usually wear DM's or Birkenstocks - neither suitable for a wedding!
I was thinking red, green or leopard print flats maybe? I don't know - I am rubbish at this!
Help me!
Also - what do you think of the dress - I have to look awesome, as this is a very close friends wedding, so there will be an old ex, my recently ex husband, and a guy I quite like that has potential, all at the one wedding, so looking awesome is very important!!

Quite like the dress but it is quite dark for a wedding. Am sure you can get something nicer.

Make sure your underwear is good and well fitting with a good bra.

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These are pretty leopard print flats.

www.net-a-porter.com/product/365967

Nice dress btw.

Oh, and I like these too'

www.stories.com/Shoes/All_shoes/Raw_edge_ankle_boots/590763-645483.1

www.amazon.co.uk/Gabor-Womens-Zeus-Ballet-62-622-48/dp/B009L077EW/ref=sr_1_35?s=shoes&ie=UTF8&qid=1376151801&sr=1-35&keywords=flat+red+shoes

www.amazon.co.uk/Marc-Shoes-1-462-02-38-100-Salma-650/dp/B009TQJ6LA/ref=sr_1_29?s=shoes&ie=UTF8&qid=1376151801&sr=1-29&keywords=flat+red+shoes

Red flat shoes. I think the ornamentation makes them seem more dressy.

www.amazon.co.uk/Fly-London-Womens-Ballet-P142540003/dp/B00ARREBQA/ref=sr_1_115?s=shoes&ie=UTF8&qid=1376152144&sr=1-115&keywords=red+flat+shoes

Flat T-bar shoes.

www.amazon.co.uk/Jonnys-Sarita-Ballet-Womens-TOGO-ROT/dp/B00A9SLYU8/ref=sr_1_361?s=shoes&ie=UTF8&qid=1376152418&sr=1-361&keywords=red+flat+shoes

Thank you! I love some of those red shoes!
ruprekt I always wear good underwear, despite the rest of me being a mess! I am, however, beginning to doubt the dress. Black not a problem, but am doubting the WOWness of it! But September is funny to dress for. Oooh - it's so hard!