Please help me! I've ordered a bra I've had before and liked for everyday comfort in a new size and hate it.
I am sat here in a Fantasie Elodie 30HH and I feel like crying...
the shape is bloody awful, it makes my boobs wider than my body. The separation is enormous and when I look down with a jersey top on it looks like I have stuffed a wide square ended shelf up my top.
I have been following the thread with interest and have more than my fair share of armpit flubber so I re-measured myself,
29.5/30 underbust
42/43 around
depending on where I am in my cycle of chocolate intake . So a difference of 12 to 13 inches. I made that a 30 HH.
I have been wearing 32FF in this bra and I liked the uplift and rounder, forward shape it gave, though I got quadra boob if i took a deep breath, and definately after scoopage. I like side support to give me forward projection as I have wide root, shallow boobs. I am slightly fuller on top and my boobs start very high near my collar bone. I am always told I look a lot smaller than the size I need to wear.
I think it is probably a style issue as I found the band v.tight (it hurt my ribs at the front), but still able to pull away by 2 inches. The centre gore was flat, but a lot higher than I am used to and I filled the cups , but found they cut in to give quad boob when I breathed in hard. Is this because of the full cup style?
I wear Fantasie bras normally as they have a wider cup, I find Freya wires are too narrow.
I think I should be trying balconettes, but don't like my boobs to be wider than my body as I have slim hips (narrower than my shoulders) and it can make me look unbalanced and frumpy in loose fitting tops.
Have you got any suggestions of shapes/ styles to try?