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This is my wedding dress, now which shoes do I go with...

81 replies

LoveGigi · 12/06/2013 15:36

here is my dress.

I have bought these shoes but have now seen these shoes.

Which do you prefer?

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LoveGigi · 12/06/2013 19:58

I'm so pleased that my dress has been given a S&B seal of approval, I absolutely love it too and have not had any shred of doubt about it, it's perfect for me and the occasion. I knew it as soon as I saw it.

However I have a history of being unsure and rubbish with shoe choices and I don't want to muck this one up.

I still think I like the pointy toe over the platform shoes but they were an impulse buy on Friday and pink hadn't entered my head until I saw them. I have been trawling for gold shoes for months now to no avail.

LeGaveOrf, I agree re the suede, I'm not a suede fan as I know they will get trashed easily.

FamiliesShareGerma, lovely shoes too but I'd have the equivalent of a muffin-top in them. My wide feet would spill out of the sides.... Oh how I wish my feet were more elegant.

I've never heard of Sophia Webster shoes before, does anyone know what kind of fit they are? Probably a daft question.

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LeGavrOrf · 12/06/2013 20:26

There are some open toed gold courts here www.gina.com/bridal.aspx#/hid=0&uk=0&clid=0&p=1&v=24&o=0, ignore the ghastly clodhoppers, the shoe is called Livi.

Bit expensive though.

That is such a stunning dress, I hope you have a lovely day, I missed that bit about matching your shoes to your daughters frocks.

LittleBearPad · 12/06/2013 20:33

Love the dress and the pink heels (2 pair a bit more but I'm short and so go for higher heels). Hope you have a fab day.

LoveGigi · 12/06/2013 20:35

LeGavrOrf, thanks they are nice but over budget unfortunately. I think my 6 year old DDs love of fushia is finally rubbing off on me.

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fuckingscabies · 12/06/2013 20:39

First pair! Second pair a bit... Trashy?!??

Great dress and sounds like you're going to have a great wedding!

LoveGigi · 12/06/2013 20:39

Thanks LPB

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LeGavrOrf · 12/06/2013 20:43

I know, bloody silly money!

I think your idea of a wedding at a registry office in a dress like that and then back to your house for a BBQ sounds far, far more enjoyable than dressing up in a great big dress and having a formal ceremony in a hotel with everyone on their best behaviour.

xTillyx · 12/06/2013 20:45

First pair,the others look more like night out shoes.

FamiliesShareGerms · 12/06/2013 20:52

These ones might work for all day? Though if you are very wide of foot, LKBennett might not be a good idea at all (I am too, and I can only wear them if I get a size too big and a half inner sole)

LittleBearPad · 12/06/2013 21:21

Is it me or have LKB shoes got lots more expensive recently. They used to be £120/£140 generally. Now they're £170/£190.

I blame Kate Grin

FamiliesShareGerms · 12/06/2013 21:26

I read your first line, LittleBear, on "Threads I'm on", and came on to say "I blame Kate" too Smile

LoveGigi · 12/06/2013 22:16

FSG, thanks for the shoe suggestion but I do need some height, a heel of sorts is a must at least for the ceremony bit.

They are expensive. Maybe I should heed the fact that Kate is a bunion in waiting! They are not comfortable, I wore them for about 10 mins this evening. But I fear I may be asking for too much to expect comfort.

I have a modicum of toe cleavage when wearing them. Is that the norm?

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FamiliesShareGerms · 12/06/2013 23:38

You need your wedding shoes to be comfortable, seriously. You will be on your feet all day, and you will be the focus all day too, so no sneaky hobbling off for a sit down...

MerylStrop · 12/06/2013 23:45

first shoes
are you sure you can't manage the louboutins?

FamiliesShareGerms · 12/06/2013 23:54

Expensive but beautiful wedges?

MmeLindor · 13/06/2013 00:03

Gorgeous dress.

I liked the second pair that MrsCB linked to. Much classier than the pink ones.

Couldn't have gone commando on my wedding day - I wouldn't have been relaxed. But if it's something you do on occasion then it might not worry you.

waltergal1 · 13/06/2013 02:45

Love the second pair, the extra height is sassy and fun. Beautiful dress!

plannedshock · 13/06/2013 05:29

You need a combination of both a pointed platform-louboutin style!! Think kg do the sort! Do NOT get a nude or glittery pair hot pink looks fab!! Good luck on your big day!!

Hippychickster · 13/06/2013 07:30

Congratulations!!! Your dress is lovely! And I like both pairs of shoes

LoveGigi · 13/06/2013 10:41

I've come to a decision....

Out of the two pink pairs I prefer pair number one, however due to all your help and advice I have decided that I won't keep the shoes due to the following

  1. They are uncomfortable.
  2. They are suede and will get trashed v quickly
  3. Perhaps the shade of pink is not quite right for my skin tone.

I'm going to see if MrsCBs Sophia Webster shoes go in the sale and order both the neon pink and the rose gold pair for comparison and keep my favourite one assuming they will fit me..

I have also learnt the following through this process;

  1. My dress is see through!
  2. This bride will be wearing pants!
  3. That I will buy a back up pair of flat shoes in case it all gets too much.

Thanks for all the tips and help.

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morethanalltheteainchina · 13/06/2013 10:51

I actually prefer the second ones, but think the first ones will look better with the dress for your wedding as they are more elegant.

I also agree with all the people that have said nude shoes would work as well - something like this could be nice www.jimmychoo.com/all-sale/ivette/invt/131ivetteblkid

MrsCampbellBlack · 13/06/2013 12:04

Gigi - if you bought them from lkb rather than john lewis, return them asap - they are very tricksy over refunds.

LoveGigi · 13/06/2013 12:46

Yes I bought them from LKB themselves, it should be a 7 day refund period from last Friday but I just don't trust that they will count tomorrow as the 7th day so I'm going in this afternoon for my refund.

I've seen previous threads on here about lkb's poor return and refund policy. It's certainly added to my anxiety knowing I only had a very short window to decide if they were the ones.

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LoveGigi · 13/06/2013 12:50

MTALTIC, they are nice too and I can see that they would work, but a tad over my budget. Im looking around the £200 mark. Thanks for looking.

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ifancyashandy · 13/06/2013 13:01

No no no to nude. Too Kate Middleton. Ageing. All the royals wore them at Zara P's wedding. Kiss of death.

And that lovely dress needs lovely shoes!

The Sophie Webster ones are gorgeous. And are delicate enough for the dress. Of the LKB ones, I too would have gone for the 1st pair as think the platform is too 'heavy' for the dress. Lovely colour though.

Here's hoping they go in the sale! You're going to look lovely.

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