Thank you lovely mumsnetters. I have gone to town today and bought a mooncup it's bloody brilliant. Had to shout about how great it is on here because if I tell anyone in RL they will think I'm bonkers 
Also I got my bra size measured today and went from a 34c to a 32e. Thank you mumsnetters for all the threads it looks like an instant boob job and is comfortable for the first time in forever so so happy 